Are You Motivating Your Team Or Accidentally Draining Them?

Let’s be honest: none of us set out to be that manager. The one who quietly kills motivation without even realising it.

But here’s the kicker — even well-intentioned leaders can slip into micromanagement when the pressure is on.

A Quick Self-Check

Be honest with yourself — no one else will see this.

👉 Do I trust my team enough to let them decide how to get the work done?

👉 When giving feedback, do I focus only on mistakes — or do I highlight effort and progress too?

👉 Do I explain the bigger picture so my team sees how their work matters?

👉 Do I make space for fresh ideas, or do I always steer them back to my way?

👉 When things go wrong, do I jump in and take over — or coach them through it?

If you answered “yes” to most of these, congratulations — you’re creating an environment where people want to do great work.

If Not… Start Small

And if you didn’t? Don’t beat yourself up. Awareness is step one.

Start with one small shift:

• Provide more context on why a task matters to the business.

• Recognise the effort behind a result in the moment (not just in the end-of-year newsletter).

• Allow a team member to design their own path to reach an outcome.

Those little tweaks add up quickly.

The Bigger Picture

At the end of the day, motivation isn’t about pep talks or telling people to pull their socks up. It’s about whether people feel:

• Trusted

• Recognised

• Part of something bigger

That’s what sustains performance — and what turns managers into true leaders.

Here’s to leading courageously.